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Post by observer on Apr 24, 2013 19:23:09 GMT -4
What's this? The observer on in the middle of the afternoon/evening? Is this a sign of the end of the world?...No. I just fell asleep on the couch after I got home from work this morning. The only roommate home left for work without waking me up, waiting until he got home with his girlfriend to do so. Course the only reason they woke me up was because they wanted to use the couch....I'm not sure if I should be insulted or not.
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Post by observer on May 9, 2013 23:51:18 GMT -4
Sorry for the absence the last few days. Been busy with my second job, like my signiture said for the weekend, but Monday I got a used ds game I've been looking for. Any of you that dropped by my deviant art page will have seen my little comic explaining the specific of the game. Anyway my roommates took the game while I was asleep and hid it, saying i'd get it back come saturday. Apparently they wanted me to get back to my threads as I'm sure some of you have too.
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Post by perfectlygirly69 on May 10, 2013 10:56:28 GMT -4
Your roomates....I am starting to like them
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Post by observer on May 10, 2013 11:53:30 GMT -4
Yes well before I got home today they had also hidden the 360. Seems they don't want any distractions for me...I may have to give them more than what they want. >
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Katz
Resident of the Mansion
'I'm sorry, No dogs allowed.'
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Post by Katz on May 13, 2013 16:02:12 GMT -4
Apologies to all my loyal fans on the site (Yes, a joke xD) about my sporadic terms of absence from the website, I'll try to make a habit of letting people know when I need to leave in the future.
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Post by observer on May 22, 2013 4:36:10 GMT -4
Apologies for my lack of activity lately, been busy and distracted. One of the things I've been distracted by (and told otherwise by the one person I've told it) is some of those who have come and gone here at the mansion. Some of those people I've felt left because of me. Whether it was because they thought I was too inexperienced for them (my first ever rp was in the gender room FEB 25, 2010) or because I took the thread in a direction they didn't like (this has happened before with at least kirb777, but I caught myself and discussed it with 'im) I don't know. But I carry that with me a lot lately. I know some people (Like swade and music of the night) are busy and around only when school or work permits, but when others vanish for about a year or longer I can't help but wonder if I drove them off. Even with Hugo I feel that way. He used to have plenty of threads all around the mansion with guests, but now I feel like I've driven him into the clown room and taken over. Sure some new threads I wait a day or two before deciding to help get it going, but...I can't help but think back to the days before I was a mod. Back then when someone new showed up or a thread started to fall to the wayside I would send Hugo a note and let him know 'hey if you need to take time from our threads this person has dropped by a lot only to possibly feel like you've forgotten them'. He'd then get to continuing on the thread with them and any feelings of being over looked would be gone from them. But now most of his active threads are all in the clown room and clowntopia. I know he's been busy with school, but I still can't help but feel I've pushed him out of the rest of the mansion.
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Post by Deleted on May 22, 2013 21:59:09 GMT -4
Well, it may not be much reassurance, but you were not the reason that I have been absent most of the time. I've been busy and just haven't really found what I've been looking for, I suppose
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Post by perfectlygirly69 on May 23, 2013 15:31:12 GMT -4
I am not sure what to say other than dont feel to bad. In the end its just a site. but you know I am bad with words
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Post by observer on May 26, 2013 0:07:26 GMT -4
I know you're not one of the ones I feel I've chased off kitsch. You stop by every now and then to tell us how things are going. The ones I feel I've chased off vanish without a word. Perfectlygirly, I can't help worrying about it. As you've told me before this site has more freedom than others. The only real rule is to respect each other, although sending out tons of notes to everyone in hopes of getting an rp started is a good additional rule. It's mainly why the foyer exists. Just ask for help in the intro thread and someone's likely to answer.
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Katz
Resident of the Mansion
'I'm sorry, No dogs allowed.'
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Post by Katz on May 26, 2013 3:48:20 GMT -4
You shouldn't worry about it man. Sometimes people just move on and leave. You are clearly dedicated to the site so don't kick yourself about people leaving. I'm sure there is a multitude of different reasons why people have disappeared over time.
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Post by tjgalon on May 26, 2013 11:57:52 GMT -4
Yeah, it seem slow, but it not much we can do about it. We can just contiune to have fun, as best we can.
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Post by perfectlygirly69 on May 26, 2013 21:52:11 GMT -4
Yeah, it seem slow, but it not much we can do about it. We can just contiune to have fun, as best we can. ^This
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Post by tjgalon on May 26, 2013 23:43:23 GMT -4
alsop hopefully make new friends too
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Post by observer on May 29, 2013 3:09:04 GMT -4
Thanks guys That's what is so great about this place. Those that stick around become a tightly knit group, looking after each other and helping each other.
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Post by perfectlygirly69 on May 29, 2013 10:07:54 GMT -4
I'm here for you buddy. And if you want I can try and change into a girl and be here for you like that
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